The concept of "Safe Words" is sourced from sadomasochistic sex and bondage practices. Because of the nature of its sessions, it is possible for one or more of the participants to construe, say, cries of pain or pleas for release, as being part of the act. "Safe words" are therefore implemented in order to let the participants know whether or not the session is threatening the safety or comfort of the people involved. The word "Lobster", I hear, is a fair example of a "safe word".
Why do I mention this? No particular reason.
I don't engage in such acts, if you're curious enough to ask. I just heard about the concept somewhere, and found it to be a nice example of how each subculture can have its own viewpoints and practices. It seems that even sadomasochistic sex gets handled in a responsible manner after all.
The more I think about it, the more I consider the fact that the concept of "safe words" translates into other organizations and subcultures. The espionage game uses "safe words" ("code words"?), for example, which agents could use to send a variety of signals or messages. Some modern e-mail systems screen for "safe words" (present in legitimate company mail) in order to lessen their users' chances of receiving spam. And I imagine that people involved in the performance arts have their own "safe words" to act as simple cues, or subtle indicators of security.
How interesting it is that we have imposed such a degree of organization on such aspects of our lives. But then again, it's very telling of how far we can mature in any given field.
"Lobster".
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